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ஈன்ற பொழுதின் பெரிதுவக்கும்....

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ஈன்ற பொழுதின் பெரிதுவக்கும் தன் மகளைச்  சான்றோன் எனக்கேட்ட தாய் தந்தை  This blogpost is an attempt at me trying to put my thoughts into words (which might fall awfully short).  The happiness and the joy that we as parents experienced when Laya was awarded "Badger of the year 2025" for her Kindergarten class could only possibly be summarized by the modified version of Tirukkural in the header. She has always been a child par excellence, something that Aarthi and I have always been proud of but limit telling her (so that it doesn't get to her head). But that day on May 19th 2025, when Ms. Emily Medina, Assistant Director of Student Affairs reached out to us via "Parent Square" to inform that Laya would be awarded Badger of the year award took us to another level of parental pride which we never imagined.  The day of the award ceremony was on May 30th and Laya had absolutely no clue about all that was to uncover over the next hour. All four of us reached her school...

The best dad one could ever have

Sacrifices that a mother makes in giving birth and raising a child is something unparalleled and is also something about which a lot has been sung and written. But, when it comes to Dads that doesn't happen to be the case and neither did I ever realise about this backbone of mine until I became one. Someone, who always works in the shadows and never ever expects any credit for anything he has done. Heck, he doesn't even realise the sacrifices he's made, leave alone expect us to recognise it. I remember the time when my dad was posted to a rural branch of his bank for a couple of years. Me and my brother used to live with my mom in Chennai whereas he used to visit us every weekend. I can't imagine the pain and suffering he would have gone through those days living all by himself (those were the days prior to mobile or internet when we didn't even have a landline phone at home) with the only thought of waiting for the weekend to arrive to see his family. During summer...